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In Islam, puberty starts before 18yrs – Senator


Senator Kabiru Marafa



In this interview with JOHN ALECHENU, Senator Kabiru Marafa (ANPP, Zamfara), speaks about violence in politics and the raging controversy about underage marriage
Do you subscribe to violence in politics?
Nigeria is a religious country; hardly can you meet 10 people and find one free thinker. Many of us are either Christians or Muslims. When I say this, I am talking about faith. If you have faith, both religions teach that it is God that gives, it is God that takes and whatever you see, it is destined by God to happen. Both religions teach that you have to be your brother’s keeper. When you take politics to be a do-or-die affair, that is what leads to violence. But if you believe that what God has planned for the two of us is what is going to happen at the end of the day, violence will definitely have no place in our polity. If it is for me, it will come to me, if it is for you, it will definitely go to you. We need to sit down as a people and look at ourselves and see where we are getting it wrong.
With our claim to be a multi-religious country, why do we have so much violence in our polity?
To be very honest with you, many things are wrong with Nigeria. When you look at this issue of religion, sometimes we should sit down and ask ourselves, ‘are we more pious than our fathers?’ What was Nigeria like in 1960 and the 70s? What about the Nigeria of the 80s, 90s and 2000? Definitely, those in the 60s and 70s feared God more; these people lived peacefully among themselves. I had a friend in Kaduna, who was the daughter of a minister in the then Northern Nigeria, the late Angela Dalong. She grew up with the children of ministers, who were mostly Muslims and she attended Islamiyya School anytime she was with one of the children of the ministers. If they were in her house and she had Bible studies, they would follow her; she even married a Muslim but she lived and died a Christian. None of them changed their religion, we were more accommodating that time. But now, when you see people sitting together, they are only united in crime. So, there are many vices now, cultism, homosexuality, adultery and corruption all over the place; they are being perpetrated by both Christians and Muslims. When they come out, they claim to be pious, you cannot do this, you cannot do that. Let us look back and see where we missed it. Nigeria is our only country. Look at Europe today, they are coming together, they were independent nations. They looked at their situation and felt that coming together was better. If we say at this point, we want to disintegrate, we can sit down and agree to do it, but I don’t think it is the best thing. If we must stay together, we must learn to accommodate our differences. If you are my friend and I visit you, you must provide a place for me to pray because I pray five times daily. If you come to my house, I must provide a place for you to pray if you belong to another religion other than mine.
Why did you vote for the retention of section 29 4(b) in the constitution?
There are two issues here. It is really surprising when you see people who are supposed to know but they do not know, refuse to know or choose not to know. The Senate takes this issue of the constitution amendment with all the seriousness it deserves and since we started it, we have demonstrated to Nigerians how serious we are on it. It is amazing when you hear people; professors, lawyers, people that are supposed to know, turning the whole thing upside down, saying that the Senate is passing a bill legalising child marriage. That actually is not what happened. The truth of the matter is that, the whole brouhaha is about Section 29. Section 29 relates to renunciation of citizenship and the constitution that we are operating today says in that section that for anybody to renounce his citizenship, he or she must be of full age.
Now, because that statement itself is not too clear, it went further in 29 sub-sections 4 (1a), it went on to explain what full age means. It says (a) full age means the age of 18 and (b) any married woman is deemed to be of full age. In the wisdom of the constitution drafting committee, it thought it wise to recommend that sub-section (b) should be deleted. Some of us felt doing that will infringe on the rights of some Nigerians because there are some Nigerians that marry out their daughters at less than 18 years. After all, the 18 years is the opinion of some people. Others could have their own opinions. Some of us felt that what we have in the constitution takes care of everybody in Nigeria.
But the constitution affects us all…? (Cuts in)
The constitution is supposed to be for everybody in Nigeria; so, everybody has to be comfortable with it for it to operate perfectly. Those of us, who feel 18 is the age of maturity or responsibility, have our 18. Those of us (Nigerians), who feel that 14, 15, 16, 17 or 99 is the age of responsibility or maturity, also have our own. The constitution has taken care of everybody. Trouble started on the floor when some people felt that why should somebody say that that section should remain as it is. With due respect to all Nigerians, we must learn to accommodate one another. You cannot define yourself and define others by any stretch of imagination. Most Muslims believe in it, if you look at all our holy books, all of them believe in that. Those that have 18, I don’t see any big deal in this thing. I don’t see why people should take to the streets over this. You have your rights, I have mine; if you want to keep your daughter till she reaches 40 or 50 years, it is left to you, nobody tells you not to do it. He that wants to marry out his own at 13, 14, 15, 16, you allow him. There are a lot of cultures. I have given people a lot of examples. One of the benefits of being in the National Assembly is that you meet people from all nooks and crannies of this country, and you will learn to appreciate cultures and values and so on and so forth. You see people (men) tying wrapper to the National Assembly chamber, they tie it in a very elegant manner, why? It is their culture. I cannot tie wrapper, if I tie wrapper and come to the chamber with it tomorrow, my people will recall me. It is not my culture but for God’s sake, I cannot say that those people tying wrapper to the chamber should be barred from coming to the Senate. The Senate recognises traditional dressing. Once it is traditional, it can be attested to by people. We respect them.
At what point do you think the confusion crept in?
That incident speaks volumes about our attitude as Nigerians. We don’t know ourselves, the basis for you to make a headway with any person or group of people is to first understand them. I have to know you, you have to know me. You have to know what I value, what I respect, what I hold dear; then, I know your own, that is the way we can be friends. You know what I hold dear, so you don’t touch it. I know what you hold very dear; when it comes to it, I say it is your own problem. I don’t see how you can define yourself and define me, you can’t. This is my office; I have the right to dictate what happens here, if you are not comfortable with it, you go out, simple. Nigeria is our country; we have more than 250 tribes and so on. What we need to do is to understand ourselves first. What does an average Hausa man or a Fulani man, or a Kanuri man or a Nupe man value most? What does the Yoruba man value most? What does an Igbo man value most? We take them in their order so that when it comes to their issue, we don’t even contemplate touching it. When you talk about this issue of puberty in Islam, it is in our Holy Books, that is the way it is; so, who are you to come and change it for me? You can’t! Hold your own view. When I argue with you on your own view, it becomes something else.

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